Mood tracker for BPD: see what shifts your mood, hour by hour
With borderline personality disorder (BPD), moods can be intense and change within hours. Looking back, those hours blur. Short entries through the day, tagged with what happened, show the shifts and their triggers. This guide covers what to track and how it fits with therapy such as DBT.
Last reviewed by the Pixy team. Not medically reviewed. 4 sources.
Pixy is a self-tracking tool, not a medical device or therapy. It cannot diagnose, treat, or monitor any condition. Talk to a doctor or therapist about your symptoms and your care.
If you are in crisis or thinking about suicide, get help now. In the US, call or text 988 (988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). In the UK, call Samaritans on 116 123. Elsewhere, find a free helpline at findahelpline.com or call your local emergency number.
What mood looks like with BPD
BPD involves intense and highly variable moods. Episodes last from a few hours to a few days.[1]
In a study where outpatients rated their mood up to six times a day for about a month, people with BPD had about the same average mood as people with depression. Their mood changed much more from moment to moment.[2]
Shifts often follow something that happens with another person: a conflict, feeling left out, or time with friends.
Why BPD moods are hard to track
Memory flattens the swings
In the same research group, people's recall of their mood changes agreed poorly with what they had logged in the moment.[3]
One rating a day misses the point
If mood changes within hours, a nightly rating shows an average that never happened.
Shame after a hard day
Looking at a red day can hurt. A log is information for you and your therapist, not a grade.
Therapy asks for daily records
DBT, which was developed for BPD, uses a daily diary card.[1] Keeping a card and an app in parallel can feel like double work.
What to track with BPD, and why
- Mood, several times a day
- Captures the shifts that make up BPD moods.[2]
- The emotion
- Rejected, ashamed, angry, lonely. Naming the emotion is a skill in itself.
- What happened
- Conflict, feeling left out, time with friends. These are the triggers to look for.
- Skills you used
- A tag for skills practice shows what you did, next to how you felt after.
How clinicians use mood records
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) was developed for BPD.[1] DBT uses a diary card to record emotions, urges, behaviors, and skills each day. Therapists often review it at the start of a session.
A mobile diary app for DBT was acceptable to patients and therapists in a feasibility study.[4]
If your therapist gives you a diary card, use it. A mood tracker can add the hour-by-hour shifts and a view across months.
What tracking can look like: a week with BPD
One made-up week with 2 to 5 entries a day. Mood drops sharply after a conflict or feeling left out, and recovers over hours.
Example: how your entries can look as a trend
This chart is drawn from the made-up entries on this page, using Pixy's colors. Pixy's statistics show a mood chart of your own entries. Pixy does not draw this exact chart, the tag rows below it, or mark episodes. You spot the patterns yourself.
What you can spot in this example
- The sharpest drops come right after entries tagged "conflict" or "felt left out".
- Moods recover within hours. That is the episode length NIMH describes.
- Entries tagged "skills practice" come after the lowest points and are higher than them. Bring patterns like this to your therapist, who can help you read them.
How Pixy can help you track BPD moods
Pixy lets you log as many entries per day as you like, each with a color, emotions, tags, and a note.
Tags to create
- conflictAn argument or tense moment with someone.
- felt left outOr another common trigger for you.
- time with friendsGood moments count too.
- skills practiceAny DBT or coping skill you used.
- therapySession days.
Setup and routine
- 1Create the tags above in Settings, Tags. Use the triggers and skills from your therapy.
- 2Turn on the daily reminder and pick a time you are usually free, such as after dinner.
- 3Add an entry each time your mood shifts, not just once a day. Pixy keeps every entry and colors the day by their average.
- 4Pick the emotions that fit. Each of Pixy's 72 emotions has a short description.
- 5Write a line in the note about what happened. It helps when you look back with your therapist.
- 6Before an appointment, open the monthly report or Year in Pixels and show it on your phone, or take screenshots. Pixy has no printable report.
- 7Export your data now and then. Entries live only on your phone, with no cloud backup. The export is a JSON file, useful as a backup or for moving to a new phone.
What Pixy cannot do
- Pixy is not a DBT diary card. It has no fields for urges, target behaviors, or skill ratings.
- Pixy has no crisis features and no safety plan. Keep your safety plan where you can reach it.
- Pixy cannot diagnose BPD or judge your progress. Your therapist can.
FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions
Pixy is a self-tracking tool, not a medical device or therapy. It cannot diagnose, treat, or monitor any condition. Talk to a doctor or therapist about your symptoms and your care.
If you are in crisis or thinking about suicide, get help now. In the US, call or text 988 (988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). In the UK, call Samaritans on 116 123. Elsewhere, find a free helpline at findahelpline.com or call your local emergency number.
Sources
Facts on this page come from these sources. Numbers in brackets link here.
- Borderline Personality Disorder. National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH), revised 2025.
- Affective instability: measuring a core feature of borderline personality disorder with ecological momentary assessment. Trull TJ et al., Journal of Abnormal Psychology 117(3), 2008.
- Clinical assessment of affective instability: comparing EMA indices, questionnaire reports, and retrospective recall. Solhan MB et al., Psychological Assessment 21(3), 2009.
- Using a Mobile Diary App in the Treatment of Borderline Personality Disorder: Mixed Methods Feasibility Study. Helweg-Joergensen S et al., JMIR Formative Research 3(3), 2019.
Guides for other conditions
- Bipolar disorderSpot episodes and early signs like short sleep. Build a simple life chart for your doctor.
- DepressionSee slow progress that is hard to feel day to day, and keep tracking on low-energy days.
- AnxietyFind which days and triggers make anxiety spike, from work to caffeine.
- ADHDCatch fast mood shifts within a day with several quick check-ins.
- PMDDRate every day for two cycles and line your mood up with a period tag.